in general people can be classified in one of two ways. those who love surprises and those who don't. i don't. i like to be in the know. i have to be in the know.

ok. so my point actually has nothing to do with surprises. my point is this.....

whoever said "what you don't know can't hurt you" was a complete and total moron because for most people i know, the "not knowing" is the worst feeling in the world.

there are so many things that we have to know.
~we have to know that we have what it takes.
~we have to understand how to take care of our families and how to take care of our friends.
~eventually we have to figure out how to take care of ourselves.

as a woman, i have to be in the know. but as a human being, i will admit that sometimes it's easier and better to stay in the dark. because in the dark there may be fear but there is also hope. and having hope is everything.