nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend
~~~plautus
Saturday, January 12, 2013
The Hurricane Sandy Project...
“Never underestimate the power of a few committed people to change the world.”
~~~ Mohandas Gandhi
I still can't believe that THIS happened with the severity that it did! No one expected it to become such a HUGE tragedy :(
A friend of mine, is on a Triathlon team which organized THIS . My desire to make a difference kicked into full gear mode and I knew that we could help. When I say we, I mean my friends and those who are here living in Utah. Just because we live 3000+ miles away does not mean that we can't help and send them some aide. So what did I do? I decided to organize a clothing drive. I've done it before and it's always become a huge success so I knew what I was doing when it came to the "organizing". Uh. Yeah. Uh. No. I was about to be taught and humbled. I must say how lucky that I am to have such GREAT friends who ALWAYS support my "projects" and who LOVE to SERVE just as much as I do! I had no idea what I was about to be in for...and yes I can admit that I got a little overwhelmed. I'm not being ungrateful but it became a bigger project than I ever expected. Like I said, I love that I know that I can always count on my friends to support and help me 100% and as you'll see from the pictures below, you'll fully understand what I mean! Friends of friends of friends of ..... stepped up and donated. They felt the same way that I did. They wanted to help but had no clue of how to and when they heard about what I was receiving donations for, it made them feel like finally they too, were also making a difference.
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| Let the organizing and separating BEEEEEGIN!...or NOT!? ;) |
Also, take a look at this. It's an AWESOME EXAMPLE OF SERVICE AND GRATITUDE xxx
Friday, January 11, 2013
Remember when I talked about my new obsession with William Marshal? And the new obsession with the writer Elizabeth Chadwick? And also the fact that I've been working hard on my genealogy? (Speaking of. I was down digging in my basement in a closet of unknown boxes that were left by my Grandpa when I moved in. So my curiosity got the best of me so I couldn't help but dig in. Can you say GOLD MINE!!! No really. I found pictures that I had never seen, my Dad had never seen, and pictures of my young, fun, and adventurous Grandma! I was able to feel connected to her in a different way. We were very close when she was still with us, but this was different. I realized that I could relate to her. Anyway, we all have skeletons in our closet because I also found out about a family secret. I am not sure if my Grandpa even knew but I am sure that he did but it was NOT discussed between their sons, my Uncles. My Dad was shocked and I know from a discussion about it, that my Uncles do not know. I even went up to SLC to get the records and the proof to try to understand exactly what had happened. Anyway, we all have something or some issue. But again, I did not feel any sort of judging towards her in any way, in fact, like I said, it made me feel closer and to realize that she and I were more alike that I had understood. A lot of things also began to make a little more sense. Certain actions and things that she would say. Like I said, a wonderful discovery) OK, back to William Marshal, so the author Elizabeth Chadwick and I are FB friends. She posts the most interesting pictures, facts, stories, and knowledge that are so interesting. There are many other additional friends who are also so fascinating and knowledgeable and I thoroughly enjoy it not to mention that I learn so much! Anyway, I made a comment about the ancestor that she had written a book about and how wonderful that it had been. That was it...
And then on Sunday, I received this message...
Katie, I saw your comments about Judith of Lens and other ancestors under Elizabeth Chadwick's posts. I too am an ancestor of her's and William Marshal's and a host of other royals as I am sure you are too. I also found Elizabeth's books while researching family member's. I went on Elizabeth's William Marshal tour in October and it was fantastic. I looked up your profile and was excited to see we are both also LDS (and we are cousins), so I just wanted to say Hi!, Debbie Jacoby
It's late so I need to go to bed but I just had to share!
Sincerely,
Cloud Nine and not even close to being finished
PS...William Marshal Tour Here. I. Come. NO LIE
xx
And then on Sunday, I received this message...
Debra Jacoby
Katie, I saw your comments about Judith of Lens and other ancestors under Elizabeth Chadwick's posts. I too am an ancestor of her's and William Marshal's and a host of other royals as I am sure you are too. I also found Elizabeth's books while researching family member's. I went on Elizabeth's William Marshal tour in October and it was fantastic. I looked up your profile and was excited to see we are both also LDS (and we are cousins), so I just wanted to say Hi!, Debbie Jacoby
Katie Terry Corbridge
Debra! Your message just made my day! I am so glad that you messaged me :) and that you saw my comments on Elizabeth's post! Where do you currently live? I grew up in Toronto, Canada but currently live in SLC, UT. My mothers maiden name is Sainsbury, as in the British store. Do you have an ancestry.com account where you have all of your research? I would love to go on the William Marshal tour. We were just in London for the Paralympics and I can't wait to get back and head south, west, and north. Can't wait for your reply. Oh and HI right back!
Debra Jacoby
I live in West Bend, WI. I have an ancestry account, my user name is DJacoby62, or if you send me your e-mail I will set it that you can view my tree. The William Marshal tour was arranged through a company called ATA Travel (Academic Travel Abroad) out of Washington D.C. I think I was the only person on the tour who knew who William Marshal was before I knew who Elizabeth Chadwick was!
Katie Terry Corbridge
Haha that's too funny :) Really? That would be awesome to view your tree as I'm sure I have made some mistakes. Did you go on the tour because you knew he was an ancestor? Whose line are you from? Obviously one of the daughters. My email is kterry88@gmail.com. So tell me a bit about yourself...
Debra Jacoby
Yes, I went on the tour because he is my ancestor, but I also love Elizabeth's books. They really make you feel like you're "there". Actually I come through William 8 times so far, through three of his daughters. To say a little about myself, I am 51, I have three children and four grandchildren. My husband and I were both born here in WI, but we left for 25 years (my husband is retired Air Force). We have live in Mississippi, Nebraska, Guam, North Dakota, Belgium, Texas, Minnesota, and back to WI. We both joined the church about 32 years ago, Sister Missionaries. I am a library page for our local library. I am a Master Gardener, so I enjoy gardening, reading, genealogy, and a few other things. What about yourself?
Katie Terry Corbridge
My husband and I have 2 children who are 12 and 10 and live in Utah where all of our family now is. I was born in Utah, grew up in Toronto, and after I graduated from high school I attended Southern Virginia University on an athletic scholarship playing soccer for the school. My husband is from Utah so after I graduated, I moved to Utah and got married. I immediately got a job with an advertising agency and worked as a sales and marketing rep up until a few years ago with them. I quit so that I could be home for my kids. When my son was 2, my husband and I were in an auto accident that left me paralyzed from the waist down. Needless to say it was a pretty crazy year of learning how to live again. Having always been an athlete, the words paralyzed and wheelchair, were not in my understanding but because of my trust and faith in the gospel, I knew that it would all work out exactly how it should...and it did! We had our daughter the following year and continued to do all of the things that we wanted to and that made us happy once again. I currently work with a non profit foundation, Heart 2 Home, who remodels homes to make them accessible. My greatest joy is to serve and to be an example. I work as a peer mentor counselor with the Christopher Reeves Foundation as well as Backbones and I love it! Not all are able to bounce back with a positive attitude after a trial or tragedy and if I can help them see that light at the end of the tunnel, THEN I WILL! I am extremely active still in all sports, love to travel, love to write and blog, and love to read!
Katie Terry Corbridge
I wanted to say again how thankful that I am for allowing me to see your family tree. I know that we are both related to Judith of Lens but I don't see where I'd be related to William Marshal. Am I missing something or not looking in the right spot? I don't expect you to drop "your life" and help me out so don't feel like you have to but just maybe when you have the time? Anyway, I hope that you are having a great week :)
Debra Jacoby
Katie, You and I both have a Gilbert de Clare born in 1243 in our tree. His Grandmother is Isabel Marshal and his great grandfather is William Marshal. You just need to go back on Gilberts line 3 generations.
Katie Terry Corbridge
Wow! Thank you so much. Your tree has also helped me with a descendant of Lady Matilda Maud of Huntington so again another thanks!
Debra Jacoby
You're so welcome! And we're 'family" right! ;)
Katie Terry Corbridge
Yes. Yes we are! xx
Let's just say that excitement was a complete understatement!!! SO ecstatic!!! It is by far the biggest discovery that I have made, when looking back into my ancestors who are from the UK. Especially with so many books written on him expressing how great of a man that he was. Full of integrity, morals, commitment, honor, and loyalty. I couldn't be more proud to be a descendant of such a great man, such a great family!
Katie Terry Corbridge
Yes. Yes we are! xx
Let's just say that excitement was a complete understatement!!! SO ecstatic!!! It is by far the biggest discovery that I have made, when looking back into my ancestors who are from the UK. Especially with so many books written on him expressing how great of a man that he was. Full of integrity, morals, commitment, honor, and loyalty. I couldn't be more proud to be a descendant of such a great man, such a great family!
It's late so I need to go to bed but I just had to share!
Sincerely,
Cloud Nine and not even close to being finished
PS...William Marshal Tour Here. I. Come. NO LIE
xx
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
London 2012
I have ALWAYS claimed that I was born in the wrong country and in the wrong century. Dead serious. Everyone would just laugh and say "Yeah!? As a peasant living in filth!" and I would argue back saying "Do you know me?? Do you not think that even IF that was the case, I would just sit back and accept that fate? You KNOW that I would do anything that I possibly could to make sure that I WOULD NOT have that kind of life." And still they would just shake their heads and laugh. Well guess what? For the past year, I've been researching my ancestry and HAVE PROOF that I would have been that person that I always knew I would be! And yes. I DID call every one of those doubters with my excitement! Dukes, Duchesses, Earls, Ladies, castles, and connections with the Royal Court even as far back as William the Conqueror, who I am also related to! After these discoveries, as well as the ones that I am currently making, only made a trip to London that much more importantly needed! I had even begun to make a list of cathedrals, castles, ruins, and sites that were connected to my ancestors that I wanted to and will go to! I even found and bought a book that was written about my thirty-something great grandmother, who is William the Conqueror's niece. It's called "The Winter Mantle" and is written by Elizabeth Chadwick who is also now my favorite English historical author. Anyway, just a million new additions to my bucket list.
So why am I even talking about this new "plan" and "mission call"?! Well as you can obviously tell by my blog title, yep, I made it back and crossed a few off "the" list!!!
Now how did this all come about? Long story short. My freaking AMAZING...MILLION GOLD MEDAL WINNING...PARALYMPIAN FRIEND who has paved the way of so many accomplishments in the world of the Paralympics, invited me to come with her to London to possibly be her assistant and do some blog/media work, interviewing some of the athletes. It was LATE and spur of the moment but I knew that I couldn't pass up the opportunity for such a GREAT experience! Especially since I was offered a sponsorship to head over. A free trip for 2 to London?! Uh...YEAH!!!
Because the trip and the reason for my going was so last minute, we really weren't sure of what I'd actually be able to do or how involved I'd be. Obviously the security is hard core and the planning has been in motion and set in stone for months. Unfortunately we discovered the moment that we arrived that most of what we had planned to do was not going to be able to happen. Not to mention that the tickets were non existent and when a few would pop up, they were extremely expensive. We had hoped to have been granted a media pass which allows you to attend all of the events but sadly they too were completely gone. We decided to concentrate more on the accessibility and the accommodations of the city of London since it was something that was just as important during the Paralympics. Of course we became glued to the TV coverage every morning in our hotel as we ate breakfast and when we arrived home late at night. I was very impressed with the local media coverage and the constant sense of pride that you felt by all who were from the country. Especially since when Salt Lake City had held the Olympic and Paralympic games, we heard NOTHING of the Paralympics! Very unfortunate as I'm sure that there were many extremely inspiring stories back then just like I was able to experience while in London. It obviously shows how hard they've worked and in how far they've come in being accepted and treated like any other athlete. Both games are inspirational and they should both have the same respect. Here are just a few examples of the many athletes that inspired me beyond words and because of their courage and accomplishments, it continually brought me to tears.
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| Oscar Pistorius of South Africa celebrates winning the Men's 400m T44 Final at the 2012 Paralympic Games at the Olympic Stadium in London, on September 8, 2012 |
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Competitors in the men's marathon T54 classification pass the Palace of Wesminster and Big Ben during the 2012 Paralympic Games in London, on September 9, 2012.
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Sergei Pozdeev of Russia (left) reacts with team-mates after they lost their sitting Volleyball bronze medal match against Germany at the 2012 Paralympic Games in London, on September 8, 2012.
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| American Matt Stutzman won silver in archery at London 2012, but he became one of London’s biggest inspirations and images of him shooting without arms have become iconic of London. |
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| Poland's Lukasz Mamczarz starts his run up during the men's high jump F42 final at the London 2012 Paralympic Games at the Olympic Stadium in London, on September 3, 2012. |
Now in no way do I want to take away from the extremely talented athletes of the Olympic games and I'm sure that I may receive some disagreement but after experiencing what I did and seeing what the athletes of the Paralympic games have been able to accomplish with the added challenges that they each face in their own way, I actually believe that they are greater athletes. They are accomplishing the exact same things as those who do not have the same physical challenges and proving the idea of "the ability within the disability." They are hitting their challenges head on, and creating an outcome that inspires and touches many. Proving that anything is possible when you become determined, knowing that you can achieve anything that you set your mind to! Such a great experience. One that I will never forget as it left me completely humbled and determined to never give in to the hard or sell myself short, no matter what it is.
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| The Olympic Park |
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| A few night shots |
And now for some sight seeing but before I get to that let me just show you what my poor husband had gotten himself into. Don't let this tender image of a kitten fool you for even a minute. The instant you come within reach or even attempt to open up this activity binder, she'll claw your eyeballs out, or at least that's what Trevor kept saying!
| Notice the thickness? Like I said, it might have been the king of the ball buster agendas! You don't even want to know how many pages of info I had printed off. Let the binder OPEN... |
| The Holy Grail of London |
| My list of additional Elizabeth Chadwick books that I wanted to find and buy since they're easier to obtain in England than they are in the States. |
| Welcome to the uncomplicated map of the Public Transport. HAHAHAHA yeah right!? But in all fairness, the first day was pure chaos but the longer we were there, the easier it became. |
| JUST LOVE AND EMBRACE THE THICKNESS :) |
| The Tower of London Wall |
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| The Traitor's Gate |
| The Tower of London |
| So what exactly is this added wheel that I have attached to the front of my chair and what purpose does it serve? It's called a FreeWheel Attachment and as you can see it clips on to the front wheels/casters, lifting them off of the ground, and creating more of a 3 wheeler "ride". I wish that I would have purchased one sooner as it made the gravel, cobblestone, grass, and terrain so much easier to tackle! It was perfect and exactly what we needed |
| The Thames Tower Bridge |
It is such an amazing structure. Call me a total history nerd like I know that I am, but I couldn't help but think that I was walking in the exact same places/buildings/steps as so many historical figures have also done. Kind of surreal aaaand maybe a bit cheesy but whatever!
My two all time favorite modes of transportation! The Tube had it's moments and yes, they are trying to be more accessible and yes, the longer that we were there and used it, the more it made sense. I think the aspect that made it such a pain in my arse was how SLOW that it could be, stopping at every million stop along the way. It just always took forever to get from point A to point B I will admit that I did have a personal epiphany about how spoiled and impatient that I have become. The ability to just jump in my car, drive as fast as I choose to, and get to a location based on a --- mph travel time is. SO. NICE. Public transportation is just something that you have to get used to I guess. and like I said, the more we used it, the more "calm" I became. But still. I'm spoiled and I love it! The cabs were by far the easiest and the most accessible as they ALL have ramps that extend out. They are expensive but so worth it! Plus the conversations were always interesting and the tips that were given of what to see and where to go were always VERY helpful! I would have to say that the most interesting opinion that we heard a number of times was how much they wanted Mitt Romney to become the next president. They were NOT impressed with Obama at all. Another interesting tidbit on that subject was how honest the news was about things that were going on in the US, both with the government issues and world wide issues that our government was a part of. Granted you can never fully trust the media but it was interesting to see their take on it. It made you wonder since their country really has nothing to lose by telling the truth about our issues. Anyway, moving on...
Westminster Abbey. This building is so full history. To think of how many kings were crowned and are now buried here. It was gorgeous inside as well. I hated that you couldn't take pictures inside to show it's beauty but I completely understood. Again, pretty surreal after how many things I have read and researched about all of the historical events that have taken place in this Abbey. The detailed architecture was absolutely amazing and so exquisite. The minute you come out of the station, the Abbey is right there and it just hits you! I was immediately taken back with it's grandeur and just had to pause for a minute, ignore the hustle and bustle that was going on around me, and full on cheer in my head with excitement that FINALLY I WAS HERE IN LONDON!!!
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| The Statue of Richard I in front of Parliament |
| Big Ben, the buildings of Parliament, and the London Eye... |
| I can't help but think of "Peter Pan" when I see this picture :) |
| The Coppers, the Bobbies, or the Constables ;) |
| Buckingham Palace and sadly the Queen was NOWHERE to be found ;( |
| The Changing of the Guards... |
I always wondered why some "buildings" were called Palaces and some were called Castles and now I know...
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Safety and protection is the purpose for which a Castle is generally built. Decoration is secondary.
Decoration and comfort are the main concerns when it comes to building a Palace.
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| The Victoria Memorial |
| The Horse Guards at The Household Calvary Museum |
| More of Big Ben and finally getting to hear it's chimes. So amazing! |
This is St Pauls Cathedral. I am glad that we went to see this buuuuuut I have highly come to understand that once you've seen 1 Cathedral, you've seen them all! My college semester in Italy completely took care of that! lol :) Ok but let me rewind that last statement...IF you HAVE the time to SEE all of the cathedrals and abbeys that you'd like to see, then DO IT! They're all gorgeous and unique in their own way. If you'd like to sit and listen to their video commentaries and you have the time then do so, then DO IT! I've decided that I'm more of a go in, check it out, see what I want to, learn what I want to, and when I'm ready to leave, then leave. Basically a get in get out kind of girl especially when I don't have the time to slowly mozy and wander. Probably because I have seen so many but I know that if I don't make the effort, I will regret it. We were so "booked" during this trip but on the next one it will be different. Especially since there are so many cathedrals and abbeys that I do want to see because of a historical, personal, and ancestral reason. Anyway....
While on the train (our public transportation adventures were ALWAYS beneficial and the HOOKUPS were amazing btw) we met a gentleman who comped us tickets to the Broadway showing of "Wicked". Now I had seen "Wicked" twice before both in LA and in San Francisco but to see it in London was AMAZING! The actors/actresses were incredible and the English accents made it phenomenal! By far my favorite production of "Wicked" plus to finally see it with Trevor was the BEST! xx
| LOVE this boy of mine! xx |
Our hotel was just to the left of the tower, which allowed us to watch the marathon from our restaurant deck. I loved the saying "inspire a generation". So true and I was continually inspired throughout this experience. To be there and be a part of it was indescribable! And while we're talking about our hotel location, we lucked out when making the decision to stay there because it really was the perfect location. It was close to the places we wanted to go plus there was both a tube station and the new over ground train system 3 minutes from the hotel. The ONLY thing that was a full on pain was that there was not a "ramp" up the curb to the sidewalk. So you were either full on in the road or Trevor had to prop me up every time. Sidewalks here at home, I've learned to just pop up by myself if needed but these suckers were huge and impossible for me to do alone. I tried and I would just bottom out. I know that I could have done this trip alone and made it work like I always do but it was so much easier having Trevor there to just help me when needed. Plus I'm glad that we got to do this adventure together! And of course it would not have been as much fun without my bestie! :)
My third favorite mode of transportation...the train/rail. Especially because it allowed us a few additional great adventures outside of London.
| Windsor and Maidenhead, Windsor, Berkshire |
Yes, I'll admit that it had it's touristy moments but it was such a fun and colorful little town with such character!
| I loved all the dimensional landscape of the castle that were built over the centuries depending on who the King was. |
| The Round Tower in the Middle Ward, built by Henry II |
| The Norman Gate, built by Edward III |
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| A car show which is such a European thing. Next is Monaco! ;) |
| The Henry VIII gateway in the Lower Ward |
| The café that we ate lunch at before we headed back to London. Let's just say the perfect "people watching" spot!? ;) |
Look at that image of Windsor Castle as we were on the train back into London (minus the football field-goal...lol)
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| An aerial view of the estate. |
| We decided to head out to the country for a little day trip. |
| Stratford on Avon which is the home of William Shakespeare. |
| A classic Tudor building style all crooked and leaned over. |
Now why was I so excited to go to Warwick Castle? Well, because in 1292, my 32nd great grandfather was an inhabitant of Warwick Castle. He was also an important Counselor to the Earl who resided here. I'm so glad that we were able to go there because it's part of my heritage and makes me feel somewhat connected to my ancestors.
| This is one of my favorite pictures that shows part of the original castle wall. |
| Gorgeous! Especially when the sun would break out from behind the clouds. |
| We walked around to the back of the castle so that I could get this closer shot. Again, much better in person! |
| The Cotswolds |
| When I earn my million dollars I WILL have a home here. NO LIE! ;) |
| Wellington Square, Oxford |
| Oxford University |
| For the record, I looked EVERYWHERE for Daniel Faraday but he was nowhere to be found :( |
| Another extremely detailed ceiling. I am still amazed at how they created and built this. |
| This is their dining hall where they hold special dinners and meetings with the students. It was also where they filmed the great hall scene in the "Harry Potter" movies. |
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| Like I said, it was an awesome fireworks show! |
| The Waterloo Train Station |
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| On our train ride to Hampton Court and I am SO EXCITED! I quite possibly could be just a tiny bit obsessed with Henry VIII and Elizabeth I. OK. Fine. I TOTALLY am! :) |
| Hampton Court |
| I. Am. In. Heaven! |
Now what's the story behind this? Welllll...1. It's absolutely GORGEOUS and so exquisitely detailed though it's hard to see in this picture. 2. It was Henry VIII's private cathedral. Think about how many great decisions and events took place here! 3. I had to see if I could get away with taking a picture without the flash going off...lol...plus I was dared and I NEVER turn down a dare! It's also a tradition. When I lived in Italy during that Summer Semester in College, I was given the same dare while in the Sistine Chapel and the dare WAS ACCOMPLISHED! I know. Grow up. Act your age. WHAAATEVER...I am who I am!
| These are the wings that were added during the 18th century. You can definitely tell when the buildings were remodeled based on the style of architecture. |
| The quiet little corridors were my favorite. |
| Henry VIII's dining hall and where he would have entertained and received his guests. Again, I was standing exactly where he was. VERY surreal! |
| Well hello there your Majesty :) |
| More detailed ceilings. Love the gold, green, blue, and maroon! |
| Again, the beautiful gardens that I imagine Anne Boleyn, Elizabeth, Mary and the rest of his family walked through and played in. I know. Just let me have my wishful thinking... |
| A cheesy MUST be taken picture while in England! |
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